But how often do we actually hear the nitty-gritty details of how we might actually achieve those things? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex psychotherapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the specifics. Q: My boyfriend has always wanted to have sex in public. How can I give him that thrill without risking getting caught with our pants down? Airplane sex is a great example. That being said, there is a thrill to the idea that you could get interrupted at any moment. This way, you can see if it's something you're both genuinely interested , and you can take it from there.

10 Public and Semi-Public Places to Get Freaky Without Getting in Trouble


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Oh, and by experts, we mean anyone from former box-office workers and lifeguards to high school kids -- you know that people who typically can't have sex at their own home are among the best sources for this subject. Obviously, partake in any of these at your own risk. Step 1: See a shitty movie. According to a dude who worked in a small-town movie theater , this could potentially give you away. Step 2: Opt for a matinee, the earlier the better. Step 3: Head toward the front. I never would have seen them up there.
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Why would you even say that? Knowing that people are right outside, possibly trying to get in, can up the excitement, but then again, you may feel like a real asshole if you come out and find a family with a crying baby waiting to get in. This is a lower-risk way to experiment with exhibitionism. You are in your own home, after all.
Having sex in public, without the fear of getting arrested for public indecency, is to put it simply, fucking hot. The thrill that someone may be just around the corner , too, can make the orgasms that much greater. Getting arrested is a real possibility in a lot of places.